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| What unique qualities do I bring to my workplace? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we have to be away from each other for an extended period? |
| Where do we look for help in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What part of my body do I judge to be sexually exciting to you? HDIFAT? |
| How have in-laws contributed a positive change in our family? HDIFAT? |
| Is my tongue sharp like a sword? HDIFAT? |
| I have little patience for _____. HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave when I am criticized? HDIFAT? |
| What part of my body do I like to have massaged? HDIFAT? |
| How can this holiday literally be a time of re-creation? HDIFAT? |
| What is my dream for tomorrow? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our financial status now? |
| What makes me cry? Do I cry often? HDIFAT? |
| How can we do something as a family toward world peace? HDIFAT? |
| What is my dream for our involvement in Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| What is my fondest memory of my father? |
| What is my primary motivation to succeed? HDIFAT? |
| What have I most taken for granted? HDIFAT? |
| When do I feel unappreciated? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your eventual death? |
| Do I ever feel God present and working in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my work? |
| Where was I born? HDIFAT? |
| The phone rings during dinner. HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe good will triumph over evil? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see as your uniqueness? HDIFAT? |
| What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT? |
| Am I afraid of making mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| Considering my upbringing, what should I avoid with our children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge I let you / others down? |
| I need you because _____. HDIFAT? |
| There is no morality to consenting, loving sex. HDIFAT? |
| Where do I feel the need to be reconciled with myself? HDIFAT? |
| How do I like to celebrate New Years' Eve? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, I do knot know why I put up with you? |
| HDIF about giving you a ten-second kiss every day? |
| What part of the day do I usually like the best? HDIFAT? |
| What areas do I avoid in dialogue? Why do I avoid these areas? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you ask me to describe my emotion / feeling? |
| HDIF about returning to the daily routine after a long weekend? |
| HDIF when I see couples we know working on their relationships? |
| HDIF about how we use our money? |
| How does _____ help us to experience God's love for us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see the once-a-year Catholics crowding the church on Christmas? |
| Can I run a mile without stopping? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get tipsy? |
| HDIF about your frown? |
| Would I rather be a failure at something I love or a success at something I hate? HDIFAT? |
| What memories are painful for me to recall? HDIFAT? |
| Our dialogue can be a prayer to our Father. HDIFAT? |
| What is the luckiest thing that has ever happened to us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about dialoguing with another couple? |
| What is my greatest fear about my death? HDIFAT? |
| The greatest gift a father can give to his children is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get too many irons in the fire? HDIFAT? |
| What do I like to daydream about? HDIFAT? |
| Is it enough for our home to have practical furnishings, or do I require a touch of style? HDIFAT? |
| What makes me special? HDIFAT? |
| What particular event today caused me the most enjoyment? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who are easily irritated? |
| Do I constantly redo decisions? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about a giving a challenge? |
| What needs of yours do I see me being able to help with? HDIFAT? |
| How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT? |
| When I am lonely, I think of _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me? |
| HDIF when someone says I am a good person? |
| What areas of a couple's life am I least open to listening about? HDIFAT? |
| What is my earliest memory of you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have enough close friends? HDIFAT? |
| Would I change our parenting style considering the difficulties we have experienced? HDIFAT? |
| We need medicine and the checkbook is low. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we use the grace of healing to forgive our children? |
| How do we, as a couple, bring peace to each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do I tear you down in order to build myself up? HDIFAT? |
| Am I secure in the knowledge that God is present in my life even during my times of trouble? HDIFAT? |
| Can I begin to love myself enough to forgive my past mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| What goals have I set for myself this year? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What did I do to shut you off? HDIFAT? |
| How does my / your traveling affects our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about breast-feeding? |
| When have I felt most wanted? HDIFAT? |
| I most want to be sexually involved with you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do we have the same general beliefs and vales? HDIFAT? |
| What does trust mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I regularly do things I do not want to do? HDIFAT? |
| What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| When we are not communicating as a family I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about challenging another couple to dialogue with us for _____ days? |
| I am happiest when _____. HDIFAT? |
| When I am pressured by you, how am I most likely to respond? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when it comes down to the last minute to finish getting something done? |
| HDIF when I have the courage to let people know what I stand for? |
| Do we handle conflict well? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am too tense to sleep? |
| When I have a choice, do I mostly prefer to do things by myself? HDIFAT? |
| Is there anything I am doing by myself that I could involve you in? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my reaction toward sex? |
| HDIF when I borrow something and keep it too long? |
| After a fight: What would I like to take back? Why did I say it? HDIFAT? |
| My favorite dessert is _____. How does that remind me of you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I feel comfortable about inviting others to experience the weekend? |
| HDIF about our experiences in the church? |
| What helps me learn the most about you? HDIFAT? |
| How would I like to be remembered as a grandparent? HDIFAT? |
| How would the people I work with describe me? HDIFAT? |
| What helps me learn the most about you: dialoguing, or making love, or sharing our days, or quiet time together? HDIFAT? |
| What do I want for myself this weekend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about doing something I have never done before? |
| When some issue comes between me and other people, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| In what areas of our relationship do we most need to grow? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get up at night when the baby cries? |
| Am I still growing and learning? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have enough relaxation in our life? HDIFAT? |
| What is it like to feel sexual anticipation? HDIFAT? |
| Are my expectations about our lovemaking being met? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about leftovers? |
| HDIF hearing Jesus say, Love each other as I have loved you? |
| HDIF when someone hurts you? |
| What expectations do I have of our children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our home? |
| HDIF when I look back at things I have done? |
| HDIF when I pick up a gallon of milk for you? |
| HDIF when I judge you are angry with me? |
| Am I more concerned with my reputation (what people think) or my character (what I am)? HDIFAT? |
| What changes would make this relationship right for me? HDIFAT? |
| What are the most difficult things for me when I write you a dialogue letter? HDIFAT? |
| What part of the day would I most like to share with my people? HDIFAT? |
| What am I like when I am sick? HDIFAT? |
| How can I make it easier for you to say, Forgive me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I vote in every election? HDIFAT? |
| When do I last think I was listened to? HDIFAT? |
| An admission of error is a sign of strength rather than weakness. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you arrive home each day? |
| HDIF when someone criticizes me? |
| What about you am I grateful for today? HDIFAT? |
| Are we counting our years together, or making our years together count? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about lovemaking by candlelight? |
| HDIF when I am short-changed at the store? |
| HDIF tracing your face with my fingertips? |
| HDIF about how well I show my love for you? |
| HDIF about starting to ride a bicycle again at my age? |
| How will we celebrate Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see death as an end of our relationship, our love? HDIFAT? |
| What recent disappointment did I experience that I have not gotten over? HDIFAT? |
| Am I aware of my goodness? HDIFAT? |
| What couple has most affected our life? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of my life do I have the least peace? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we go out socially? |
| Is family communication a value of mine? HDIFAT? |
| What is the last good deed I did? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my inhibitions about sex? |
| In what way does Our Father have a stake in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our friends let us down? |
| What do you do that I appreciate but have not told you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF inviting couples like us into Encounter / Retrouvaille? |
| How often do I to church? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when one of our children is honored and the others are left out? |
| What one thing do you do that helps bring me closest to you? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we work on the family budget together? |
| How important is flexibility to me? HDIFAT? |
| What is my relationship with Jesus like? HDIFAT? |
| What did I not try because I was afraid of failing? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being snowed in with you? |
| HDIF when it has been a long time since we made love? |
| What does Christmas mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you neglected to share your true priorities or plans with me? |
| What is the most embarrassing thing I have ever said? HDIFAT? |
| Are we faced in the right direction? HDIFAT? |
| Do I look forward to heaven? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I still feeling hurt? Describe the pain. |
| Our neighbor lives alone. HDIFAT? |
| When I am given things to do, am I more likely to accept them or complain about them? HDIFAT? |
| What are our biggest differences? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we did something fun and foolish as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about someone who has died in our family? |
| What need of mine am I most aware of as needing to be nourished? HDIFAT? |
| Are we willing to share our story when it is a story of brokenness? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt very irritated. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when work keeps us apart? |
| HDIF about watching football on TV? |
| When I consider our financial condition, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about a daily phone call just to say hello? |
| How do I try to control you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I often preoccupied when listening to other people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our family trust level has been broken? |
| How do I approach each new day with you and with God? HDIFAT? |
| Am I contributing something to the world? HDIFAT? |
| Do I remember to pray when things are going well? HDIFAT? |
| What did I do today to generate a little more love in the world? HDIFAT? |
| Do I donate blood on a regular basis? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our loved ones refuse to do anything to improve their marriage? |
| When have I thought we were truly one? HDIFAT? |
| What hinders me from talking about money with you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I tend to dwell on the past? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult emotion I have had to share with you recently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the level of responsibility I have at work? |
| HDIF when you change the subject before I am finished? |
| What does it mean to forgive other people? HDIFAT? |
| How are you like your mother? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT? |
| What are my hopes and dreams for our children? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our marriage being made in heaven? |
| Are we growing in unity? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF hearing Jesus say these words to me The gift you have received, give as a gift? |
| What do I need to work on, in order to get better at it? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I want to share something with you but do not? |
| Do I have a nickname? HDIFAT? |
| What do I need to do to make myself sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing our dinner table with strangers? |
| Do I ever apologize to you after I have been insensitive? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do I trust you more? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: HDIF now about things I wish I had done or said differently? |
| How do I behave when things suddenly go against me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we stick to our budget? |
| HDIF when I receive a gift from you? |
| HDIF about giving away what I have? |
| Outside of church, do I take the time to really pray with my people? HDIFAT? |
| What give me the most sexual fulfillment? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, I am sorry? |
| Forgive us our sins as we forgive other people. When I pray this, HDIF? |
| What prevents me from listening to you? HDIFAT? |
| What struggle am I currently facing that I need to learn from? HDIFAT? |
| When do I feel separated from you? HDIFAT? |
| What have I given up for our relationship that has helped me grow as a person? HDIFAT? |
| Is God the center of my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being reunited after death with you? |
| Do my expectations of our children limit my love for them? HDIFAT? |
| The work I am doing now is _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I think is important for my happiness? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sharing emotions / feelings? Do I think it is risky? |
| Why did we get married? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people? |
| HDIF when I take you to a new restaurant? |
| HDIF when I do not like the dialog question you have selected? |
| HDIF about taking time out for us? |
| HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes? |
| Sometimes, I am afraid other people will see me as _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I most need from you when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT? |
| Will we take advantage of the Sacrament of Reconciliation this Lent? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite memory of our wedding day? HDIFAT? |
| What gift of myself could I give to everyone this Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children are praised by strangers? |
| What is the reason that I keep from forgiving myself? HDIFAT? |
| What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT? |
| Do I accept myself as I am? HDIFAT? |
| Would I want our child to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT? |
| If I were a Christmas present, how would I be wrapped under the tree? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to accept others as they are, or to make judgements about them? HDIFAT? |
| Is my love for God strengthened by the time I spend with Him? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about miracles? |
| What romantic things do you do for me? HDIFAT? |
| When your actions embarrass me, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| My favorite time with God is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about caroling on Christmas Eve? |
| Recently I thought it was wrong, unreasonable or selfish of you to say _____. HDIFAT? |
| It is morning and I just got up. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our family is alone together for a meal? |
| I like myself best when _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I consider my strengths? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people take advantage of me or push me around? |
| Life is not fair. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are not leveling with me? |
| Have I kept the promises I make to you as we experienced the weekend and follow-up? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the phrase, Each day is an opportunity for a fresh start? |
| HDIF when cashiers ask for several pieces of identification? |
| What actions or behaviors do you use to say a non-verbal no to sex? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going on a monthly date? |
| What, specifically, do I need to do this weekend for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have any sharing time? Why or why not? HDIFAT? |
| What are my views about mid-life marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What would other people say is my worst habit? HDIFAT? |
| At what times do I feel closest to God? HDIFAT? |
| How can I be an inspiration to our family during Lent? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when friends of ours are having marital problems? |
| Do I use my time wisely? HDIFAT? |
| Do I get enough sleep? HDIFAT? |
| What do I like best and least when we get together with the relatives? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have real love or just romantic love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF conversing one-on-one versus conversing in a small group? |
| What strengths do we bring to the Lord? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I attend a live musical performance? |
| What is my least favorite household chore? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about keeping ethnic traditions alive in our family? |
| What do I fear about growing old? HDIFAT? |
| Death frightens me (or not). HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to deal with your past? |
| Is our sexual relationship as open as our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about spending the rest of my life with you? |
| Do I pray in front of our children? HDIFAT? |
| I need to be affirmed by you. HDIFAT? |
| When I am upset, what is the best thing someone can do for me? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever tried to bribe you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I kiss with my eyes open or closed? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: At what point do our arguments get out of control? HDIFAT? |
| What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| What words did I use today that may have caused others hurt? HDIFAT? |
| How patient am I with the faults of others? HDIFAT? |
| Are there areas where our sexual relationship could be improved? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we do not get to see special friends for a long time? |
| Are our children learning to manage money? HDIFAT? |
| Do I enjoy Midnight Mass? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going back to school at my age? |
| How many times have I been stopped by the police? HDIFAT? |
| What qualities in your mother do I also see in you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about telling jokes? |
| HDIF when I forgive an enemy? |
| Do I give you the gift of space? HDIFAT? |
| What is my gift to God today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF immediately after I experienced the weekend? |
| Am I good enough to be your husband / wife? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about saving up for things and paying cash? |
| HDIF about my own aging? HDIFAT? |
| What challenges did I face today in making you the center of my life? HDIFAT? |
| Have I come to the Lord sooner than other people? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see as my greatest asset as a priest or minister? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the importance of making decisions as a couple? |
| We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF relying on hunches or intuition when things cannot be proved? |
| If I could erase any moment in our relationship, which would it be? HDIFAT? |
| What blessings can I count today? HDIFAT? |
| What makes me feel degraded? HDIFAT? |
| Our dialogue is our recurring yes to each other. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about wearing a cowboy hat? |
| HDIF when I judge myself unlovable? |
| HDIF when I have something important to say, and my mind goes blank? |
| When I consider the story of the prodigal son, I feel _____. |
| HDIF when other people cannot resist giving me advice? |
| HDIF about installing dead-bolt locks on our outside doors? |
| HDIF when activities take the place of our lovemaking? |
| What happens when I am still lonely or feel used after we make love? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of God? HDIFAT? |
| What one thing can I change to improve the atmosphere in our home? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult part of our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see myself handling my responsibilities for our family finances? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when circumstances make me second guess one of my own decisions? |
| HDIF about helping teach someone? |
| In what ways do I feel superior to you as a parent and HDIFAT? |
| When I am away from my people, what am I most likely to do to keep from missing them? HDIFAT? |
| Besides my relationship with you, what other relationships do I seek out to nourish my needs? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when there is no time in the day for us? |
| Does it matter to me how others react? HDIFAT? |
| Am I open in our non-verbal communication? HDIFAT? |
| Do we respect each other? HDIFAT? |
| If our house burned down, could we dialogue on God's love the next day? HDIFAT? |
| Am I experiencing any remorse or guilt for hurting someone else? HDIFAT? |
| How do we usually deal with conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What do I value most in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we put activities before our relationship? |
| Do my words touch my people, or roll off them? HDIFAT? |
| How have I given up control in our relationship lately? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I ask you to forgive me? HDIFAT? |
| What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutely not compromise? HDIFAT? |
| How is Good Friday important to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about planning a family budget with you? |
| What romantic things would I like you to do for me? HDIFAT? |
| What is the role of a priest / pastor / minister in our lives? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the role the priest or minister played in our wedding? |
| What areas in our marriage are good? HDIFAT? |
| If I had one wish, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the values our children acquire from TV? |
| What do I find most difficult in our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| Do I search for your faults like there is a bounty offered? HDIFAT? |
| Do others thrive because of my cheerfulness, or does my bitterness stifle them? HDIFAT? |
| What would I do differently in my life if I had the chance? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about religious statues? |
| HDIF when we make big financial decisions? |
| I would be happier if _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the time we spend with my family? |
| When you are more romantic than me, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| In what areas do you make most of the decisions? HDIFAT? |
| I am most uneasy when I think people are judging me to be _____. HDIFAT? |
| Is or love for each other stronger now than it used to be? HDIFAT? |
| What happens to us when we are not accepting of each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we criticize each other? |
| Do I admit when I am wrong? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about all the Holiday bustle? |
| HDIF about your having to work overtime? |
| HDIF when I want sex and you do not? |
| HDIF when we are lost? |
| How do I hurt myself by judging others? HDIFAT? |
| How is the gift of the Eucharist special in our lives? HDIFAT? |
| What are the outward signs of change for us as a result of dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after yelling at our children? |
| HDIF when I am aware that you have had a bad day? |
| Do I make it a point to thank people who do something for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am able to sleep in? |
| What would I change about the way I was raised? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF watching the children open Christmas gifts? |
| HDIF about your involvement with work? |
| God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT? |
| Our children are tempted by alcohol, drugs, sexuality. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are not there when I need you? |
| Do I rise above my past, or do I remain controlled by my past? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your travel schedule? |
| Do I limit my goals in order to avoid confronting my weaknesses? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about when I hear the word Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| What do we spend most of our time talking about? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about _____, my favorite uncle? |
| Am I aware of the needs of our community? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have enough time to accomplish my goals? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing your emotions / feelings express who you are? |
| How do I respond to your failures? HDIFAT? |
| What acts of kindness did I do today? HDIFAT? |
| What negative emotions / feelings do I experience most frequently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being successful? |
| How can we make this Advent a spiritual preparation for Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| What dialogue has meant the most to me? HDIFAT? |
| This week, what have I avoided talking to you about? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sending Christmas cards? |
| If it were possible, I would like to become a _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I tell lies, or tell too many? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get up but let you sleep? |
| Is my image of God like my image of my father? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think about the statement, open to you, open to God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our children say, I love you? |
| HDIF about myself when I make a mistake? |
| What do I most like about Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| Are there famous people in your genealogy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the level of morale at my workplace? |
| Do I usually initiate friendships or wait to be approached? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What do I think was your main point? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about celebrating Easter for seven Sundays? |
| HDIF about being out of shape? |
| Do I ague with you to win, or do I argue to work out something in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I get pressure from you, do I tend to become more withdrawn or more aggressive? HDIFAT? |
| What tricks do I use to get my way? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our vacation being over? |
| Am I really number one with you? HDIFAT? |
| I am a better person because of you. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are frustrated or angry with someone or something else, but you take it out on me? |
| What am I most thankful for? HDIFAT? |
| How do I view the differences between affection and sex? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we appear as partners, not as individuals only? |
| HDIF about the Lord when I sin or fail to measure up? |
| When misfortune comes, do I laugh it off, wonder why, or make the best of it? HDIFAT? |
| Is there something I dislike about myself that I see in our children? HDIFAT? |
| Do I reach God through my heart or through my head? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I cannot seem to find a polite way to say no? |
| What do I need to change in order to live my life right? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a morning person or late niter? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing that God needs us? |
| What in our relationship gives me the most satisfaction? HDIFAT? |
| Do I talk openly to God, or do I hold things back? HDIFAT? |
| What am I most likely to do when I waste time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me? |
| Am I as close to our children as I should be? HDIFAT? |
| What does maturity mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our time together? |
| HDIF when I lose an argument? |
| Do I expect intellectual closeness from our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| Is our involvement in this program helping us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| Do I listen better to you or to others? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am not listened to, and then something goes wrong because of it? |
| How do I describe commitment? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I take a walk with you? |
| Our dialogue can be a way we say yes to each other. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way you handle money? |
| I am supposed to help you recognize your good qualities. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we make time for us? |
| The person, place, or thing I miss the most is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your ambitions, whether great or small? |
| HDIF when you ask for my opinion? |
| HDIF about my job or career? |
| HDIF when someone in our family helps me? |
| HDIF about the division of chores between us? |
| How was Lent special for us this year? HDIFAT? |
| What is most appealing to me about being married? HDIFAT? |
| Do I give God credit when I share my gifts or talents? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about us when other people notice how much we love each other? |
| Do I put more than the average amount of effort into our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about attending a sporting event with you? |
| I have a dream. HDIF when other people are skeptical? |
| HDIF about the sex education program at our children's school? |
| HDIF about being a missionary for God? |
| What are my people's best qualities? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I find peace when things are chaotic? HDIFAT? |
| How do we express our love for each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF thinking this could be our last dialogue letter? |
| Have I ever stolen anything? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when stock market trends reduce the value of our investments? |
| God loves me. HDIFAT? |
| What does being open mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to understand how much you hurt? |
| The house is a mess. HDIFAT? |
| How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about waving to children on school busses? |
| HDIF when we cannot afford a night out together? |
| We have had no time for recreation. HDIFAT? |
| How has our failure to live God's plan for our marriage affected us? HDIFAT? |
| What excites me most about you? HDIFAT? |
| What barriers or attitudes do I have that keep me from developing an intimate relationship with our friends? HDIFAT? |
| What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself? |
| How are we responding to our Lord's call to unconditional love in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Our changing moods can affect our relationship. HDIFAT? |
| Do I tend to see things in black and white, or do I see shades of gray? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think I have hurt your feelings? |