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| Am I spending my time on what I value the most? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have lost control with our children? |
| What is my typical behavior when dealing with a hard time in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to change a tire? |
| How do finances affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I enjoy being pampered? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of compliment is hardest for me to accept from others? HDIFAT? |
| What are the if's I put in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How have in-laws contributed a positive change in our family? HDIFAT? |
| What happens to me when we are accepting of each other? HDIFAT? |
| How can I be more tender? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when one of my people tells me We'll see when they really mean No? |
| HDIF about chores in our home? |
| Can I program a VCR? HDIFAT? |
| God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDIFAT? |
| What in our relationship gives me the most joy? HDIFAT? |
| Are we living God's plan or our plan? HDIFAT? |
| If I were to list my strengths, what would stand out to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, That was really great? |
| HDIF when other couples support us? |
| Am I closed to listening to you on certain topics? HDIFAT? |
| We are the church 7 days a week, not only on Sunday. HDIFAT? |
| Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Do I seek happiness directly, or do I seek the things that have happiness as a by-product? HDIFAT? |
| In what area do I need to risk sharing more with you? HDIFAT? |
| I would love to take a class on _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider the level of success I have achieved? |
| HDIF when I ask you about our children? |
| HDIF about God? |
| HDIF about our children's friends? |
| I find it easy to listen to you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| What attitude of mine keeps me from making our sexual relationship all it can be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF telling _____ about my problems? |
| When some issue comes between me and other people, I feel _____ and I tend to _____. HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What could I have done to reduce your suffering? HDIFAT? |
| In what areas of our relationship do I exercise the most control? HDIFAT? |
| Have we said yes to God today? HDIFAT? |
| What has dialogue taught you about your relationship with your spouse? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about fall weather? |
| What are the changes I most need to make in myself for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What example do I imitate that is a not so good an example? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about living today knowing we are not guaranteed tomorrow? |
| HDIF when I am singing in the shower? |
| HDIF when I ask for your forgiveness? |
| HDIF about a giving a challenge? |
| HDIF after I have exercised my right to vote? |
| When was the last time we had an ice cream social type of evening together? HDIFAT? |
| Have I acquired any new qualities this lately? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we agree on an important issue? |
| Listening is most difficult for me when _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about housework? |
| What struggle are we currently facing that we need to learn from? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: What type of fights do we have? HDIFAT? |
| What can you do to help me be more honest about myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our friends let us down? |
| HDIF about kissing our children good night? |
| How do I want you to remember me after I die? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about winter weather? |
| Do I reach God through my heart or through my head? HDIFAT? |
| What limits my ability to love my people? HDIFAT? |
| What general attitudes in others do I find most annoying? HDIFAT? |
| Am I being sexually responsive to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are asked to do something, and you say yes when I would rather say no? |
| HDIF when I hold the door for you? |
| After a fight: Do our fights at least end the cold war between us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about heights? |
| HDIF when other people see our togetherness? |
| HDIF when I swear at you or engage in name-calling? |
| Am I happier than my parents were at my age? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I ask you to make love to me? |
| Last month I felt sad when _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF seeing animals in the zoo? |
| What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT? |
| Do we talk about our lovemaking enough? HDIFAT? |
| How do you signal to me that you would like to make love? HDIFAT? |
| What has our dialogue done for my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you show your love for me in front of other people? |
| What is the greatest joy in our marriage right now? HDIFAT? |
| How many trophies have I won? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consciously put aside my emotions / feelings and reach out to you? |
| Why am I most likely to tell you no when you want to make love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about changing my mind? |
| Do I think animals go to heaven? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the desire to fulfill the purpose for which I was created? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am not thanked for going out of my way for someone? |
| HDIF when I see the once-a-year Catholics crowding the church on Christmas? |
| Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you give me a mushy card? |
| A sibling is sick. HDIFAT? |
| What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with God better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the need for priests / ministers? |
| HDIF about the way I handle money? |
| HDIF when I cannot go to a function our child wants me to attend? |
| What is the side of me I least like people (especially you) to see? HDIFAT? |
| What particular event today caused me the most stress? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF sharing a moonlight stroll? |
| Are my sexual values changing at all? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about telling jokes? |
| HDIF about giving money to people who solicit on the street? |
| When I know I am wanted, I feel _____. |
| What do I think you most want from me? HDIFAT? |
| How would I feel discovering that you are hurting right now? HDIFAT? |
| Do I strive to become better? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I judge myself unlovable? |
| How am I a life-giving parent or grandparent? HDIFAT? |
| God loves me. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about _____'s visit? |
| HDIF when your parents visit? |
| HDIF when we look at movies of our wedding? |
| HDIF about my eventual death? |
| HDIF when I am waiting for you to come home in bad weather? |
| I avoid sexual involvement with you when _____. HDIFAT? |
| Have we been an example of a working marriage this week? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I still pretending not to care? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your reaction toward sex? |
| HDIF about the romance in our relationship? |
| How do I behave when I am hurting? HDIFAT? |
| How do I behave when my need for autonomy is not being met? HDIFAT? |
| When did I first realize I loved you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I get enough sleep? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAT? |
| How is the gift of the Eucharist special in our lives? HDIFAT? |
| Does out family have any traditional things that we do? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see us ever allowing ourselves to live fully God's plan for us? HDIFAT? |
| How would I like to spend our vacation? HDIFAT? |
| Am I willing to open myself up other people besides you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about talking in front of large groups? |
| HDIF when we criticize each other? |
| Are we growing in unity? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt pessimistic. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I need to take a big step? |
| Is our relationship alive and well in the eyes of other people? HDIFAT? |
| Do we enjoy the same kind of music? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my first name or nickname? |
| What sounds please me most during lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| How important do I think romance is in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we snuggle in front of the fireplace? |
| HDIF watching the children open Christmas gifts? |
| Is Jesus Lord of my future? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think of all those who helped us get our marriage back on track? |
| If I were to place a value on you, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of our relationship am I most disillusioned with? HDIFAT? |
| Do I pray about my plans before I make a decision? HDIFAT? |
| What do I procrastinate on the most? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see dialogue as part of our romance? HDIFAT? |
| Which one of us worries more about money? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we see something we want but cannot afford? |
| HDIF when I think you are taking a superior attitude into our dialogues? |
| How does my pride get in the way of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we compromise on an issue? |
| How does stress affect my self-image? HDIFAT? |
| Do I tell lies, or tell too many? HDIFAT? |
| Do I reach out to God when I need help? HDIFAT? |
| Am I good at my job? HDIFAT? |
| What joy or pleasure do I receive when we pray together? HDIFAT? |
| Have my eyes been open to seeing the Lord's miracles around me? HDIFAT? |
| What was our first year of marriage like? HDIFAT? |
| What do I value most in life? HDIFAT? |
| Would I have been able to stay at the Garden of Gethsemane knowing what was going to happen? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when God allows other people to suffer? |
| If I were to write twenty-five words in a telegram to you, what would I write? HDIFAT? |
| If I could change my career, what would I like to do? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the priorities of job or career versus relationship priorities? |
| HDIF when you are gentle with me? |
| HDIF when I see you cry after watching a movie together? |
| What quality, ability or gift of yours am I most proud to share with others? HDIFAT? |
| What happened today that made me feel sad? HDIFAT? |
| Was regular dialogue one of our New Year's resolutions? HDIFAT? |
| How long before missing dialogue affects our communication and closeness? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I deny my mistakes? |
| What activities are we involved in that cause friction in the family? HDIFAT? |
| What priest or minister in my life has been an example for me? HDIFAT? |
| Would I want our child to become a priest or minister? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize that I am not the person you think I am? |
| What are my thoughts about us being unique as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| When you go away on a business trip, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| What do I do that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT? |
| Do our children know what Advent means? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I decide to trust you with my emotions / feelings? |
| When do I nail down the lid on my emotions / feelings? HDIFAT? |
| What unfinished projects would I like finish? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being a missionary for God? |
| What is the happiest moment I have had with you this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about watching TV? |
| HDIF about attending class reunions? |
| HDIF on those occasions when your family makes demands on us? |
| When we leave each other, do we make the effort to part with loving words in case we do not see each other again? HDIFAT? |
| I see God smiling down on us as we make love. HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt anxious. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the line cannot buy me love? |
| HDIF when we cry after watching a movie together? |
| HDIF when God's will seems to be in conflict with my needs? |
| There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about criticism and sarcasm? |
| We have committed ourselves to loving each other for a lifetime. HDIFAT? |
| When I am in trouble, do I keep my cool, or do I become impatient? HDIFAT? |
| Where would I like to go that I have never been? HDIF about going there with you? |
| How do I spend the first hour of my day? HDIFAT? |
| Do I enjoy being seen nude by you? HDIFAT? |
| Lately, my biggest disappointment has been _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF beginning my dialogue letter by mentioning a good quality I see in you? |
| HDIF when I hear Jesus' words, Love each other as I have loved you? |
| HDIF about the septuplets? |
| What kind of Christmas present did I give you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have a bad habit that irritates you? HDIFAT? |
| What role does faith play in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What changes have I made during the follow-up period? HDIFAT? |
| Who are my models for my relationship with my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about God's plan for our friendships? |
| What is the wildest thing I have ever done? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when our togetherness affects another marriage? |
| HDIF about writing thank-you notes? |
| HDIF sharing my whole self with you? |
| How has dialogue changed my life? HDIFAT? |
| What illness do you fear most for yourself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I work late? |
| Do I wake up feeling tired? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways do I punish myself because of past mistakes? HDIFAT? |
| Am I as close to our children as I want to be? HDIFAT? |
| When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I experiencing any fear over some expected injury or loss? HDIFAT? |
| Do we ever threaten each other? What affect does this have or not have on our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What is the chaff I need to separate from the wheat in my life? HDIFAT? |
| Are we on the same side? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I do not know where to find the information I need? |
| HDIF when you give me a compliment? |
| After a fight: What triggered the hurt feelings? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite thing for us to do as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| Do I make other things more important than God? HDIFAT? |
| Is our love worth celebrating? HDIFAT? |
| The time I felt closest to you this past week was _____. ? HDIFAT? |
| Do I judge our success by how many possessions we have? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our daughter being a priest / pastor / nun? |
| Do I believe we have a stake in other people's marriages, and they in ours? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF putting up Christmas decorations? |
| HDIF when someone interrupts me while I am talking to one of my people? |
| HDIF when you are late and I have to wait for you? |
| How well do I think you trust me? HDIFAT? |
| What effect did dialogue have on us during the follow-up period? HDIFAT? |
| Is there a romantic location within walking distance of our home? HDIFAT? |
| When have we affected another couple by sharing our story? HDIFAT? |
| What could I do to help my people understand me better? HDIFAT? |
| Is my life inspired by love? HDIFAT? |
| What can make money a source of conflict in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I consider the latest trends and fashions? |
| Do I pray for you? HDIFAT? |
| What do I remember as the most romantic moment in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways has God worked in my life today? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more careful about people's feelings or people's rights? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get a surprise note or phone call from you? |
| What is most threatening to my spiritual growth right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about receiving gifts? |
| Do we have a sense of superiority? HDIFAT? |
| What was our closest moment as a couple this year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the time we spend with my family? |
| When did I last feel alienated in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when someone drops in unexpectedly? |
| If you are not free to risk, you cannot grow. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have to deal with low-level, nitty-gritty details? |
| HDIF when we do not dialogue regularly? |
| How well do I communicate with you? HDIFAT? |
| Husbands, love your wives as your own bodies. HDIFAT? |
| PS 34:18-21. HDIF as the Lord watches over us? |
| HDIF about how our children spend their free time? |
| How can we put more fireworks into our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What topics do we avoid talking about? HDIFAT? |
| When I am center of attention, does this feel natural or strange to me? |
| What do I do that annoys you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am following a schedule? When I am free of schedules? |
| HDIF when I give in too easily and let others push me around? |
| HDIF about celebrating Epiphany? |
| What do I think God wants for us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you go ahead and make love even when you do not want to? |
| What is my favorite memory of us from last year? HDIFAT? |
| Is our love for each other stronger today than yesterday? HDIFAT? |
| Whom do I blame most of the time when things go wrong? HDIFAT? |
| Do I know when to be silent? HDIFAT? |
| If I was stranded on an island with you, what one thing would I take with me and why? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about using credit cards? |
| What re-evaluation of the way I am living do I need to make right now for the sake of our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| If Jesus were at the foot of our bed, would He be smiling? HDIFAT? |
| What does peace mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| What values of mine differ from yours? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about celebrating our wedding anniversary this year? |
| What feeling have I been experiencing lately, that I either have had a difficult time sharing, or have not shared, with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when another couple asks, How is your dialogue? |
| HDIF when we are in each other's arms after we make love? |
| I would like people to think of me as _____. HDIFAT? |
| What brings us closest? HDIFAT? |
| We hear and see values we do not agree with. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I sense Christ present among us? |
| Have I ever called someone by the wrong name? HDIFAT? |
| Here is my description of the ideal mother: _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our credit card bills? |
| What have I done to help our parish or church grow in unity? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to do my best, or do I try to be the best? HDIFAT? |
| How do I want to spend our golden years? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: How can we avoid unproductive fights? HDIFAT? |
| What gift have you given me in the past week that I have really appreciated? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when work keeps us apart? |
| Do I let people know often enough how much I appreciate the things they do? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF reading the Song of Solomon? |
| HDIF when I think about having a baby during our middle years? |
| HDIF when I judge myself inadequate? |
| HDIF about my attitudes about sex? |
| What listening skills could improve our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What two adjectives best capture the real me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I have hurt you? |
| HDIF about our child's current boyfriend / girlfriend / best friend? |
| Do my thoughts make me happy or unhappy? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think is missing in our experience of lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when work makes demands of you that seem unfair? |
| HDIF about your tears? |
| What is the best way you support me in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Am I still bearing a grudge? HDIFAT? |
| What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF hearing Jesus say, Love each other as I have loved you? |
| HDIF about one of us becoming critically ill? |
| When was the last time I laughed? HDIFAT? |
| Do I love my people more for them, or for God? HDIFAT? |
| How can we share more of ourselves with our children? HDIFAT? |
| What compliment do I most like to receive about us? HDIFAT? |
| The quality I love most about you is _____. HDIFAT? |
| What has been our craziest date? HDIFAT? |
| Are my needs to love and be loved being met? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about forgiveness? |
| Can I program a computer? HDIFAT? |
| What kind of Christmas present did I get? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being the first to forgive? |
| HDIF when I receive a phone call from an old friend I have not talked to in a long time? |
| HDIF when I do not want to make love but do anyway? |
| HDIF when I let disagreement ride just to keep the peace? |
| When do I close my heart to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you reach out to me after an argument? |
| HDIF about a walk in the moonlight with you? |
| HDIF about taking a shower together? |
| HDIF about chauffeuring the children around? |
| HDIF when my spirit of adventure triumphs over good sense? |
| In what way have I seen my goodness through you today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am standing in a packed elevator? |
| HDIF about the prospect of making love tonight? |
| What hinders me from talking about money with you? HDIFAT? |
| How do I hurt myself by judging others? HDIFAT? |
| If we had to relocate, how would I feel? |
| HDIF about my ability to satisfy your needs in our sexual relationship? |
| What is the last good deed I did? HDIFAT? |
| What do I see in your life as life-draining? HDIFAT? |
| What are my sexual desires? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we did something crazy? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about asking for a raise when I know I have earned it? |
| HDIF when people change the rules? |
| What are my first reactions when I am under stress? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your eventual death? |
| Do I masturbate? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF the day after our lovemaking? |
| HDIF when you can show me that I am a good person after all? |
| HDIF when I watch you undress? |
| Do I try to change you instead of accepting you the way you are? HDIFAT? |
| Can I think of an event that has made a difference in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What has my mood to do with lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| Do I need to win in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How well do we communicate with God? HDIFAT? |
| Do I take without forgetting? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you stand by me, even when I am wrong? |
| What am I afraid to say to you during our lovemaking? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when things do not go according to plan? HDIFAT? |
| Life is what happens while we are making other plans. HDIFAT? |
| What part does God play in our sexual communication? HDIFAT? |
| When I fight, am I more likely to get defensive, attack the other person, or withdraw? HDIFAT? |
| Do I do a lot for other people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about staying home with you? |
| HDIF when we exchange gifts? |
| How do our children's activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Did I feel let down at any point? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have any unresolved issues? HDIFAT? |
| I think we need to negotiate the following: _____. HDIFAT? |
| My idea of a romantic evening is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I believe you taking everything too personally? HDIFAT? |
| Is our relationship alive and visible to other people? HDIFAT? |
| What would it be like for you if I died first? HDIFAT? |
| What are my plans for this new year? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when people tell me I look tired or depressed? |
| How am I different from other priests / ministers? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have the vision to see God's presence, plan, and power despite the obstacles that confront us? HDIFAT? |
| Am I patient enough with God? HDIFAT? |
| We are a sacrament. What does this mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a risk taker or conservative with my investments? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am sitting upright? When I am slouching? |
| How well have I used the ingredients that God gave me today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being in mass or church with you? HDIFAT? |
| Am I aware of my sinfulness? HDIFAT? |
| What is it about you that makes me want to ask your forgiveness? HDIFAT? |
| When I am best I am _____. Can I be this way and be with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am refusing to make up? |
| What was the greatest change, for me, after experiencing the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What special strength do I see in my in-laws? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I visit people in the hospital? |
| HDIF about dialoguing on health? |
| Do I let my low self-esteem get in the way of letting you love me? HDIFAT? |
| How has my attitude affected our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What is the most difficult consequence of forgiving you? HDIFAT? |
| Why did I marry you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when others ask me what I think? |
| Which is easier for me, abstinence or moderation? HDIFAT? |
| What does Valentine's Day mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| How can I keep the winter doldrums from affecting me and those around me? HDIFAT? |
| Did Sunday meet my expectations? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am running errands? |
| HDIF when I watch romantic movies? |
| How well do I trust you? HDIFAT? |
| Have we grown, plateaued, or slipped backward in our relationship this week? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being a newlywed? Or HDIF remembering our first few years of marriage? |
| HDIF when you initiate sex? |
| Would I trust God as I have trusted you today? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: When did I refuse to listen or ignore what was said? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt really upset. HDIFAT? |
| What is the one thing I like most about our dialogue time together? HDIFAT? |
| Recently, how have I been judgmental of my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do? |
| Do I trust God to answer my prayers? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when sarcastic remarks are directed at me? |
| HDIF when our family goes to mass or church together? |
| Do we do enough with what we know? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about proclaiming marriage to other people? |
| Do we spend enough time together? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to help my people be happy? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to make it easier for you to trust me? HDIFAT? |
| What is the role I see myself and you living out in our sexual experience? HDIFAT? |
| Are there certain emotions / feelings that are hard for me to name and talk about? HDIFAT? |
| What is the touchiest area in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Who controls the conversation in the house? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I receive an unexpected gift? |
| My strengths are _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am a tourist? |
| Describe a time when I felt guilty. HDIFAT? |
| What qualities do I see in you that I would like to develop in myself? |
| How can I tell when you are listening? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of my job? Are they being met? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have enough excitement in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite name for God? HDIFAT? |
| How do I like to celebrate New Years' Eve? HDIFAT? |
| Have we drawn closer, or drawn apart this week? HDIFAT? |
| Who or what am I jealous of? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever keep quiet because I judge you will not listen anyway? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF plunging in to a job, discovering what is necessary as I go? |
| HDIF hearing you say you love me? |
| Am I content with what I am? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am away from my people? |
| HDIF knowing your emotions / feelings express who you are? |
| HDIF when our children compliment me? |
| How has our dialogue made you more important in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you are wheeled off to surgery? |
| HDIF when you wink at me? |
| HDIF when you see me nude? |
| Do I need to forgive someone else so I can love you more? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our marriage influences those around us? |
| HDIF when you get upset? |
| How well do I accept others outside of my parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have an increased capacity for other relationships because of our love? HDIFAT? |
| A successful marriage requires falling in love many times with the same person. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going shopping with our children? |
| As a child, did I have a book that I read over and over? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever put off doing things to avoid discomfort? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I attend a live musical performance? |
| What do I pray for? HDIFAT? |
| Am I a good friend? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I accept my own aging? HDIFAT? |
| Pray Ephesians 5:21-32 together. HDIFAT? |
| Is it easy for me to accept help when I need it? HDIFAT? |
| How much a part of our marriage is God to me right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think that you are judging me but keeping it to yourself? |
| HDIF about widening our circle of friends? |
| HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings? |
| You have seniority at work. HDIFAT? |
| What is my fondest memory of our early days together? HDIFAT? |
| In what ways can I be more tender in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about gathering other people to pray? |
| What makes it difficult for me to write my dialog letter? HDIFAT? |
| What helps me learn the most about you: dialoguing, or making love, or sharing our days, or quiet time together? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about what I am able to provide for our family? |
| If I died without a chance to see you, what would I wish I could have told you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my privacy or lack thereof? |
| What changes would make this relationship right for me? HDIFAT? |
| How can I communicate better with our children? HDIFAT? |
| I tell a joke and no one laughs. HDIFAT? |
| How do I want to romance you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our relationship staying like this? |
| What is the atmosphere at our dinner table? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having a drink with friends? |
| What words would I take back if I could? HDIFAT? |
| Our children will be grown and gone too soon. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I propose a new sexual experience? |
| Our love is a prayer. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about Washington politics? |
| When I finish a task, HDIF about relaxing before going on to the next task? |
| How would I feel if our TV were to break? HDIFAT? |
| What emotion / feeling did I have today that I most want to share with you? HDIFAT? |
| Who are our models for our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations do I have of your family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about both of us working outside the home? |